Apathy - SoulHeart Intuitive Coaching

Are You Being Judged?

Judgment is a challenging emotion, whether you are the one that is being judged or doing the judging. With judgment, there tends to be a lower-level emotion associated with it, whether it be shame, guilt or blame. If you’re feeling judged, why do you feel that way?

It could something as simple as having to ask a pharmacist for a test behind the counter and them giving you a look. The person didn’t say anything, but the look in their eyes could have been the only thing that was needed to make you feel judged. It’s normally bringing a feeling to the surface that you haven’t dealt with yet. What’s the emotion that you need to work through?

On to the judgment of other people. This one is a little more complicated. You could be judging them for what are perceived as valid reasons. You visit a company’s website and make the decision whether to work with them based upon what you see. The judgments that you make may or may not be valid, but you could perceive them as being valid. These types of judgments are made every day. Not all judgment is bad.

The question for you, is what is the judgment trying to teach you? Everything that happens is meant to teach you something. Some big issues have been coming to the surface. It’s time to begin the process of working through them. So if you’ve felt judged or have judged someone else, begin to look at the reasons why.

What has judgment been teaching you? Let me know. Do you want to know more, click here to book a discovery session or an appointment.

It’s Time To…

What do you want 2021 to look like? A lot of the structures in your life were demolished in 2020. You can build something new. Something different. Are you ready?

It’s so easy to get stuck in the mindset of poor me. Things never seem to work out for me. But you don’t have to live there. You can create something new. Something different. You can build a life that you love.

Maybe you’ll be one of the fortunate ones and with a snap of your fingers, it will be different. But let me tell you a secret, it rarely happens that way. You must process your old life first. How did you end up where you are? It’s not an easy process. There’s a reason that people stay the way they are. It requires work and effort. How bad do you want it?

Are you willing to take the leap? Are you willing to put in the work? It would be easier if things did just magically happen. You must demonstrate how badly you want it.

The lessons that you’ve experienced have made you who you are. You lived through them for a reason. They’re part of your life’s journey, but you don’t have to stay there.

We can get guidance from our intuition, oracle/tarot cards, astrology, numerology, etc., but ultimately you have the final say over how your life turns out. It’s yours to live as you wish. So, what are you going to do?

Every change starts with a small step. You can do this if you want to.

It’s never easy to move past your fear or swallow your pride, but there’s so much joy on the other side knowing that you did something that terrified you and it turned out ok.

A leap of faith is challenging, but you must have hope. Be optimistic that your world can be better. It can be what you want it to be, the effort is up to you.

Do you ever have a thought that doesn’t leave? A thought that says you should do this. Start there. You don’t have to change everything overnight. Work through the pain and see what lies on the other side on your timetable.

What effort are you willing to put into changing your life? Let me know. Do you want to know more, click here to book a discovery session or an appointment.

Wait! Before you Speak…

After the events in Washington, D.C. in January, there’re seems to be a lot of blame going on. One side is saying they should be heard, there’s evidence to prove their point and the other side is saying what was said to them 4 years ago, we won let’s move on.

The major issue is that you generally like to feel that you’re right. What you believe couldn’t possibly be wrong? So, you start to defend your beliefs. You go after the person whose beliefs are different and attack. Never asking, or per chance you did ask, to see why they hold those beliefs to begin with. In truth, we seem quite polarized, but if we had an honest discussion, we might come to see we have more in common then we thought.

In order for the people of the United States to change, we need to each be willing to look at ourselves. To look at our beliefs. To listen to each other and not just to listen to respond but truly listen and hear what is being said.

Two wrongs don’t make a right. So, what is right? That’s challenging to say in a moment such as this. You could say that you should be more emphatic, and it might be a good place to start. The Golden Rule, to treat others as you wish to be treated. We’ve gotten used to being anonymous and spouting off what you believe on social media. It’s quite different if you have to look at person and see the hurt your words have caused.

You will often pick and choose facts to fit your narrative. It doesn’t make it any more or less true. You should be looking for the truth in any situation. Not simply what should be true.

Right now, the world needs a little more kindness. A little more compassion. If only you took the time to live in another’s shoes, might we make progress and not be so divided? You have a choice. Would you rather be right or understand?

Each of us needs to learn some understanding. Maybe it’s time to take a step back. Think about your words before tossing them about or use them as a weapon. Think before you speak.

How can you be a little more understanding? Let me know. Do you want to know more, click here to book a discovery session or an appointment.