One of the most challenging things you might ever do is to learn to surrender. You have a tendency to want to control. To control how something happens. Eek! You get an idea in your head. You may even try to force it to happen in the way you’ve seen. But unfortunately, that’s not how things work. You’re meant to do some work to bring that something to fruition, but the unfolding isn’t up to you. What a bummer! You can do, do, do all you want, and somethings just won’t happen no matter what you do. It could be you’re trying too hard or not hard enough. Like that makes any sense.
There’s a balance that you need to learn to walk. The only thing you can control is yourself. You can’t force someone else to change, no matter how much you want to. You can’t control how someone else feels. You can’t make something happen when you want it to. It would be easier if it didn’t.
There’s a plan for you. Things in your life don’t always operate on your timetable. You need to learn to surrender. Now you may be thinking how do I do that? Each person is a little different. Ultimately like anything else the more you work on yourself, the more things will start to fall into place, and you won’t want to control the outcome anymore.
Surrendering is a practice. It’s a place within yourself that is confident. One that knows that things will happen as they’re meant to. One day you may do well, the next might be more challenging. The practice isn’t always easy. It’s something that you work towards. You learn to work through your fears, your desires, and your pride to open up and allow courage to enter your life.
Have the courage to surrender to your dreams. Work on yourself. Feel comfortable within yourself. What you want will come, it may not be in the package you envisioned or happen how you would like, but it will come if you can step back and surrender.
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