Are you happy? For most people the answer is no. You may he happy in an area of your life, but overall the answer is no. The decisions that you’ve made in your life have led you to this point. The decisions can be due to believing it’s the right decision or being afraid to make a different one.
Fear of the unknown is a reason that people remain stuck in their lives. The known even if it causes discomfort is better than the path not yet taken. But the planetary energies are pushing us on to this new path. What might have felt right at one time has lost its appeal, or is becoming more difficult to maintain. Spirit will keep triggering us until we make the change.
Most of my life I didn’t like change. Dread might be a better word. For me, change seemed to involve the people I loved dying and dreams not turning out as I expected. Even when I stepped on the spiritual path taking the leap on to the unknown was difficult. Even having multiple psychics tell me I could do this took a while to comprehend. I had already started down a path that I desperately wanted to work. I would work harder and keep trying. It had to work. The problem was while that concept worked for some people, it didn’t for me. The reason it wasn’t my path. It was a lesson that I needed to learn as I walked my path. Taking the leap on to my path was terrifying and challenging, but with a bit of excitement. I needed a push on to it or maybe a shove. Without it, I might still be working on the lesson. We all have our reasons for staying put, but we are sent to this world for a reason. We can make a difference if we have the courage to be our authentic selves and not who we think we should be.
So how did I overcome the fear to change? I started to work through it. I worked on the beliefs that I had learned over the years. I cast away the story that I told myself about why I was unhappy and started to write a new one. The fear to change is still there, but it has been muted. It reactivates the next time I make an uncomfortable change, but it has lessened.
As of this moment, I’m not where I believe I’m meant to be. But I’m happier now working multiple jobs, putting the pieces together, and trying to figure out what my gifts are, and how to incorporate those into my new business, than I was playing it safe and following the path I thought I was meant to follow.
When it comes down to it we have so little time on this planet called Earth. We have hopes and dreams, but are afraid to start following them until we feel safe and secure. Then and only do we feel it’s possible to do what we love. What if I told you there is another way? It may mean having multiple jobs, like me, but the time to act is now. Only by walking through the fear can you begin to feel happy in your life. Act. It may be something small or jumping off the cliff, but either one will start the process of catapulting you into a new life. Take the leap. Do you need help? Let me know. Do you want to know more, click here to book a discovery session or an appointment.